不幸的人如何感恩？

“I thank god for my handicaps, for, through them, i have found myself, my work, and my god.” — Helen Keller

Difficulties are opportunities to better things; they are stepping stones to greater experience. perhaps someday you will be thankful for some temporary failure in a particular direction. when one door closes, another always opens.

困难是好景的机遇，是重任的垫脚石。也许有一天你会感谢一些暂时性的错败，当一扇门关闭时，一定会有另一扇门打开。

“One of life’s gifts is that each of us, no matter how tired and downtrodden, finds reasons for thankfulness.” — J. Robert Moskin

"生命赋予我们每个人能力，无论多麽疲倦或被践踏过，我们都可以找到感恩的理由。”

相反，在施予的时候，不要介怀对方感恩与否。

“Blessed are those who give without remembering. and blessed are those who take without forgetting.” — Bernard Meltzer

幸福的是那些施予而又不记著的人;有福的是那些受恩而又不忘记的人。